Wednesday, September 3, 2008

A Belated Posting for Gloria's 14th Birthday!









Sorry Gloria girl. Did not upload the photos taken on your birthday! It was taken using the other camera and not my hp. Anyway, we had good time at Sakae Sushi at Suntec. Remember we went to Ben & Jerry and had our yummy ice cream! I'll upload more photos after you come back from Christmas Island!

Dinner with Mr Funabiki & Family @ 京華 on 21/Aug





Mr Funabiki visited us @ Jast office about 5pm with his family and his cute Nanami! We brought him a birthday cake although it is belated by 1 day. We then went to 京華 about 5.45pm and had an early dinner! At about 7.10pm we almost finished our dinner. Marcus joined in too. He came about 6.30pm and in fact he put on a fair bit. Must be good life, good bonus! Hoped that Mr Funabiki had an enjoyable time in S'pore and I'm he did!

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Thursday, August 7, 2008

For All Children of the World


當我老了 ,

不再是原來的我 .

請理解我 ,

對我有一點耐心 .

當我把菜湯洒到的衣服上時 ,

當我忘記怎樣系鞋帶時 ,

請想一想當初我是如何牽著你的手教你 .

當我一遍又一遍的重复你早已聽膩的話語 ,

請耐心的聽我說 ,

不要打斷我 .

你從小的時候 ,

我不得不重复那個我講過千百遍的故事 ,

直到你進入夢鄉 .
當我需要你幫我洗澡時 ,

請不要責备我 .

還記得小時候我千方百計哄你洗澡的情形嗎 ?
當我對新科技和新事物不知所措時 ,

請不要嘲笑我 .

想一想當初我怎樣耐心地去回答你每一個 ” 為什麼 ” .
當我由于双脚疲勞而無法行走時 ,

請伸出你年輕有力的手攙扶我 .

就像你小時候學習走路時 ,

我扶你那樣 .
當我忽然忘記我們談話的主題 ,

請給我一些時間去回想 .

其實對我來說 ,

談論什麼并不重要 ,

只要你能在一旁聽我說 ,

我就很滿足了 .
當你看著老去的我 ,

請不要悲傷 .

理解我 ,

支持我 ,

就像你剛開始學習如何生活時我對你那樣 .
當初我引導你走上人生的路 ,

如今請陪我走完最後的路 ,

給我你的愛和耐心 ,

我會報以感激的微笑 .

這微笑中凝結著我對你無限的愛 .

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

For Everything There’s a Season




For Everything There’s a Season


By Joy E. Walker Steward



We may not know the reason


For all of life’s suffering and pain,


But we know everything has its season,


So the sunshine will follow the rain;


There are even times when the sun shines


While the rain is still pouring down,


Those moments of grace God sends us,


Reminders that


He’s still around;


So when adversity’s fire is burning,


Expect a cooling breeze;


Know that God is right in it with you


As He moves your growth to achieve;


Embrace His tender compassion


But yield to His discipline too


For the father loves each of his children


And knows best how to nurture you;


When life’s pruning is painful,


Don’t let bitterness enter your soul,


For when pruning is done you’ll be better,


Your heart and your spirit whole;


So if this is your season for weeping,


Know your tears will end with the night,


For joy always comes in the morning


When faith gives way to sight.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

The Zen of "Kung Fu Panda"?


'Enlightenment thru Entertainment' Dharma-Inspired Movie Review : by - Shen Shi'an


Po the Panda (voiced by Jack Black) is the perfect underdog - the roly-poly yet constantly hungry one, who seemed to be the exact misfit as the Dragon Warrior, who is prophesised to save a village from the wrath of Tai Lung the leopard (voiced by Ian McShane). While Po fantasised at length about being an almighty martial artist, his self-confidence wanes when he realises how far away he is in skill.

Nevertheless, Oogway the grandmaster tortoise (voiced by Randall Duk Kim) believes in his potential - just as he was sure that a peach seed could be nurtured into a peach tree, that a peach seed will transform into nothing but a peach tree - but only when supporting conditions are present. The focus on Po being the "chosen one" might remind Buddhists of how even the least likely of us have Buddha-nature!

However, Shifu the racoon (voiced by Dustin Hoffman), who was the chief disciple of Oogway, doubted Po's abilities initially, and was impatient at wanting to pluck the fruit before the seed was nurtured. Sometimes, we can only plant karmic seeds, nurture them and wait for fruition in good time! As Oogway says, "there are no accidents" - though the interplay of causes, conditions and effects takes time. Karma is not always as instant as we wish!

Po's plea to his master to "make me not me" is reminiscent of the Buddhist teaching of non-self - which paradoxically allows for "self"-transformation via personal efforts to grow in spiritual insight. Seeing Po's greed for food, Shifu uses his desires with desirable effects - by using his unending appetite as a means to motivate him to train hard and well. It's vaguely like the tantric concept of skilfully transforming gross desire into fine fuel for liberation!

Vying for the status of the Dragon Warrior, Tai Lung fights with Po for the Dragon Scroll. In truth, it was but an empty scroll, which reflects the face of the one who peers into it. This famed secret "recipe" for making one the Dragon Warrior was but a spiritual placebo, a Zen koan-like riddle. There is no secret ingredient that makes one the mightiest warrior - other than honest confidence and righteousness - which would be aligned with the truth.

Thus, Tai Lung had betrayed all that he had learnt from Shifu with his contention for the scroll, which was much ado about nothing. The honour that he assumed it promised was literally "empty" of any substantiality. That he realised nothing special from the scroll ironically proved that he did not deserve the honour it represented. As if a wordless sutra, the empty scroll interestingly becomes a good gauge to deter pride while subtly offering truth.

The empty scroll might remind some of the story of Sudhana, who goes on a quest for the absolute truth. After a long search, he meets Manjusri Bodhisattva, the personification of perfect wisdom - who points him to a tower atop a steep mountain. After a perilous ascent, Sudhana arrives at the tower - and realises it is empty! Could this imply that the journey of learning matters more than its end, while ultimate wisdom has no fixed forms?

Some other traces of Buddhist influences in the film include a scene of Crane (voiced by David Cross) being interrupted by Po while finishing a calligraphic piece of the word Zen in Chinese (Chan)! Oogway also utters thoughtfully that "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present." Perhaps it was inspired by the heart of the Bhaddekaratta Sutta (translated by Thich Nhat Hanh below), where the Buddha taught...


Do not pursue the past.

Do not lose yourself in the future.

The past no longer is.

The future has not yet come.

Looking deeply at life as it is in the very here and now, the practitioner dwells in stability and freedom.

We must be diligent today.

To wait until tomorrow is too late.

Death comes unexpectedly.

How can we bargain with it?

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Runaway Housemaid - An experinece to learn from!


Ha ha! Never think that such a thing would happen to me! A run away house maid after employing 3 maids! This is the worst I ever had! She had worked for us for 1year 9mths.

Came home on Sat night (14/6) after a good movie (Kungfu Panda) and a good laugh too! When I went in the house and saw the torn envelope without any house keys in it, I knew the maid must had run away! We actually planned to send her off on the next day to the airport... Now not only do we have to waste the air ticket but also might have the risk to pay the $5k... What a mess she had left! The maid left without her clothing and I read through her diary and found out that almost all of her diary entries are: 1. Need to keep long hair 2. Need to have a hand phone 3. Need to pray! These are those things the maids are not supposed to have! Wonder what kind of training the centre has given them and do the agents remind them of those "Don ts"?

Brought in the new maid from another agent on 15/6. She seemed to look fine and work fine. Wouldn't know her true self as it has been only 3 days. However, as she had been working in Indonesia as a housemaid for 2 years, roughly she knew what to do, is just that she needs to follow our way of doing things.

Hopefully, this maid does not give us problem and does not request as much as the previous one!


(The runaway maid was at the Embassy and was persuaded to go back home as we already cancelled her work permit from 11/6. Finally we had to pay for her air ticket again and some admin fee to send her luggage to the embassy together with her salary. I even top up a little more on her salary. Does she have any consideration for us? All she wants is the above 3 points: Long hair, hand phone & pray).